Does anyone wear a stack of bracelets with the panache or presence of Brooke Garber Neidich? Unlikely.
AIRLINE: The one with no turbulence and no chatty seatmates. I’m still looking for it.
AIRPORT: Rémy de Haenen Airport.
ALIBI: “Wait, what time is it?”
APP: Merlin Bird ID, by Cornell Lab. It’s like Shazam for birds.
BAG: The Row makes a wonderful flat envelope with a zipper, and I always travel with two of them. I put my Kindle, iPad, AirPods, sleep mask, hand cream, lip balm, toothbrush, and toothpaste in them, and I don’t have to search through my carry-on when I want something. And when I get to where I’m going, they’re the perfect size for a clutch.
BEDTIME: Way too late.
BIKE: No, thank you. I’ll walk.
BIRTHDAY: Mine, on Christmas Eve, with friends at a long lunch and our feet in the sand.
BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND: There’s nothing like a real girlfriend.
BREAKFAST, WEEKDAY: A few skim lattes from the Miele and White Moustache plain yogurt with Kind granola and fresh fruit.
BREAKFAST, WEEKEND: At Bar Pisellino with Danner and a grandchild or two. Skim latte and either an almond cake or a little sandwich with curried egg salad—and, ideally, no spills.
CAR: Anything as long as I’m not driving or giving directions.
CHILD: A grandson—any one of them. That’s why you don’t kill your children.
COCKTAIL: Tito’s vodka, shaken cold with a twist.
COCKTAIL APPETIZER: Castelvetrano olives or Planters lightly salted peanuts from the can. (But I serve them in a dish.)
COUPLE: George and Gracie.
DATE: Dinner on a tray and two or three episodes.
DINNER, WEEKDAY: A club sandwich at the Nines.
DINNER, WEEKEND: Caesar salad, sautéed mushrooms and peppers, and cannoli at Emilio’s Ballato.
DISGUISE: François Pinton giant dark glasses.
DRESS: An Alaïa shirtwaist dress: calf length, button front, with long sleeves you can roll up. It hides every flaw. When I told the sales director that the dresses were too short, he apparently talked to Azzedine about making longer ones. I have one in every iteration.
DRIVE: The P.C.H. from San Francisco to Los Angeles.
ENEMY: All is forgiven.
ESCAPE: The Whitney Museum.
EXCUSE: “Start without me. I’m five minutes away.”
FAMILY: My kids, their kids, their friends, their friends’ kids.
FIRST LADY/FIRST MAN: Hillary and Bill.
FIT: Tailored by Christy Rilling.
FLAW: I always believe I can fit one more thing in the day, in a suitcase. It’s a problem.
FOIL: Tin.
FRIEND: My girl group, every one of them.
GOOD-BYE: I drag it out as long as possible.
HIDEAWAY: A cabana at the Hôtel du Cap-Eden-Roc.
HOTEL: Le Yaca, in St. Tropez.
INDULGENCE: Peach cream pie from Briermere Farms.
INSULT: Dead silence and total avoidance.
JACKET: A black Chanel bouclé jacket from 1996.
KISS-OFF: “It’s not my thing.”
LAST MEAL: Spaghetti alla Nerano from Lo Scoglio, on the Amalfi coast.
LUNCH, WEEKDAY: If I’m uptown, shrimp on butter lettuce at the Mark. Downtown, it’s asparagus with hard-boiled egg at Sant Ambroeus.
LUNCH, WEEKEND: Salt-crusted shrimp, onion rings, and, if I’m living dangerously, a hot-fudge sundae at Mary’s Fish Camp.
MATCH: I prefer unmatched: my tri-color Rolling bracelets, four on one arm.
MOVIE: The Thin Man, any of them.
NAME: Daniel.
NEIGHBOR: My new neighbor, Andy Cohen, but for the next four years, it’s his construction workers.
NONFICTION BOOK: Nothing Is Lost: Selected Essays, by Ingrid Sischy.
NOVEL: Middlemarch, by George Eliot.
PANTS: For traveling, High Sport stretch-cotton pants are incredible. They have a wide elastic waistband that doesn’t cut into you. And they hold their shape without bagging at the knees.
PET: Did that. Coco, the chocolate lab. Is in heaven now.
PIECE OF ADVICE: “I like to give it; I’m happy to take it.”
PODCAST: I don’t indulge; I’m a reader. Heather Cox Richardson every day.
PRESIDENT: W.J.C.
RESTAURANT: The Nines.
RIDE: Blade from New York to East Hampton.
SAYING: “It’s nice to be important, but it is important to be nice.”
SHOES: Gucci loafers.
SINGERS: Carly, Joni, Janet, Stevie, Bebel.
SPOUSE: Daniel. Third time’s a charm!
STORM: The one in the distance.
STREET: Rue de la Citadelle, St. Tropez.
TELEVISION SERIES: Borgen.
THEME SONG TO YOUR LIFE: “Diamonds and Pearls,” by Prince and New Power Generation.
TIME OF DAY: Sunset.
TOAST: “Viva sweet love.”
VACATION: St. Barth’s, for as long as humanly possible.
VICTIM: I don’t play it.
VIEW: The sea.
WAKE-UP TIME: Sunrise.
WEEKEND BAG: L. L. Bean Boat and Tote.
WORK OF ART: A Ruth Asawa hanging wire sculpture.
WRITING IMPLEMENTS: Blackwing pencil and Uniball Vision pen.
Photos: courtesy of Brooke Garber Neidich (Neidich); pchoui/iStock/Getty Images (bird); IMDB (The Thin Man); Air Mail (composite)